here is the way the world has learned how to communicate: suppress until explosion, ignore completely and never address, blame the other person without accepting any responsibility, attack and criticize the other person without examining the issue, over apologize to placate, hint and act passive aggressively, bully people into apologizing, just be sure to never be direct and never say what you mean, and if you do, expect to be attacked, and if you’re a woman, called a “bitch.”

we as women especially have been so docile that we are suppressing so much it’s amazing we don’t have ulcers or are crawling with cancer. there is no authentic intimacy because everyone is too busy trying to save face. everyone is too busy trying to be right.

 

 

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